4 to 7 year olds & Parents

In search of adoption counseling, family counseling or individual counseling? Read the "profiles" on these experts and after you speak to two or three, choose one that you feel best fits your needs!

Professionals are listed alphabetically by last name.

Adoption Counseling & Educational Services (ACES)

info@adoptioncounselingservices.com

Find therapists individual numbers at
http://www.adoptioncounselingservices.com/Therapists/TherapistLocations.html

Washington Office (Longview) 503-680-8064

www.adoptioncounselingservices.com

In addition to our counselors' academic credentials and training, each therapist affiliated with ACES, has earned a one year Post-Graduate Certificate in Adoption Therapy.

Areas served in Oregon include Portland, Beaverton, Dundee and Gresham. Vancouver, Washington, and surrounding areas can be served as well. Longview, WA office now open. This group of clinicians has the ability to provide in home services.

Services provided include counseling and workshops. Therapists work with children adopted internationally as well as children who spent time in state care. Services provided for birth parents, adults who were adopted and adoptive parents.

Philosophy: "Adoption can be a wonderful way to build a family. It can also be challenging. Adoption Counseling & Educational Services is an affiliation of mental health practitioners united in the goal of providing quality services for adoptive families."

"ACES' adoption therapists respect and acknowledge that each family is unique. We encourage parents to draw on their strengths and abilities, at the same time we help children explore grief, loss, attachment and identity issues. Our philosophy is one of helping families to move from coping with life, to living life joyously as a fully integrated family"

Free parent support groups provided.

Amy Arensberg, LICSW

LW00005106

425-454-2835

1300 114th Ave., SE, Suite 102
Bellevue, WA98004

Email: amyarensberg@comcast.net

I specialize in treating children and teens with Asperger's Disorder, mood disorders, ADHD, adjustment disorders and family issues. I also treat adults with mood disorders, fertility issues and adjustment issues. I strive to create a warm and comfortable atmosphere where my clients can work on learning ways toward optimum mental health.

My role as a therapist is to work with each client (and their parents) to define their goals in therapy. I focus on the client’s strengths and resources to bring about change in patterns of behavior and ways of thinking. Each client is an individual and I may use a combination of approaches that are best suited to their needs.

Bethany Christian Services

206-367-4604
1800-733-4604

www.bethany.org bcsseattle@bethany.org

19936 Ballinger Way NE, Suite D, Seattle, WA 98155

4204 Meridian St., Suite 105, Bellingham, WA 98226

5913 SW Westgate Drive, Suite 117, Portland, OR, 97221

Child & Family Counseling Support
Bethany offers both general counseling for adoptive families and specialized trauma informed therapy. Our specially trained and licensed staff of masters level counselors offer a variety of specialized therapies specifically designed to meet the needs of adoptive children.

ADOPTS Program
With our ADOPTS program (Addressing Distress Of Post Traumatic Stress), staff will address the trauma triggers that specifically get in the way of a child connecting to their adoptive parent. Using a wrap around model, staff use group therapy, individual experiential play therapy, family therapy, and parent-child relationship centered therapy to help families in need of support.

At Bethany, our desire is to harness the inherent strengths already naturally built into the relationship adoptive parents have with their adoptive child. With these strengths identified, Bethany provides parent education as to how their adoptive child’s trauma is specifically connected to the behavior they might be seeing in the home. Then, they will be invited into the process of helping their adoptive child find healing.

Parent Groups
One of the most valuable things adoptive parents take away from our parent groups is the simple, yet comforting knowledge that “they are not alone.” After coming out of our parent groups, adoptive parents have said things like, “It was encouraging to be with other families going through the same thing.”

As an adoptive parent, our parent group offers you:
• A holistic understanding of trauma and its effects on your child
• Practical ways to develop in your child healthy expressions of emotions and thoughts
• Effective ways to increase your child’s capacity to develop healthy attachments Strategies for building on the strengths of your child

Because your adoptive child is in his/her group during the same time, he or she is learning the same material, just from a more developmentally appropriate level.

Child/Adolescent Groups
Our child & adolescent groups offer a place of safety and understanding, where your adoptive child “can come out of his/her shell.” Our staff helps your child:
• To understand why he or she might be having such a difficult time
• To imagine with your child what tools they might like to have in their “toolbox,” that will more readily help them regulate their emotions
• To grow in confidence and personal strengths

Recognizing that a child’s language is often play, our staff utilizes play therapy, art therapy, music therapy, and narrative therapy.
For info contact Greg,gmalone@bethany.org or Cindy, cridgway@bethany.org, 206-367-4604

Suzanne Engelberg, PhD

License-WA1948

206-542-7516 x105

DrEngelberg@verizon.net

18532 Firlands Way N, Suite A
Shoreline, WA 98133

Dr. Engelberg is a Licensed Clinical Child Psychologist with nearly 20 years experience working with adopted children and their families. Her specialty is addressing childhood and family difficulties impacted by adoption. She has additional expertise with multi-cultural families and families with lesbian or gay parents.

Dr. Engelberg is a past Senior Clinician for the Adoption Resource Center of Children’s Home Society of Washington, and past Coordinator of the Jewish Adoption Consultation, Information and Referral Service of Jewish Family Service. She is a former school counselor and school psychologist, as well as a popular workshop leader on topics of child development, parenting and school difficulties. Dr. Engelberg’s advice has been quoted in national teen magazines.

Dr. Engelberg provides therapy to parents, families and children. She also offers short-term consultations to parents with questions about adoption-related issues such as relationships with birth family, identity, adoption issues at school, etc. In addition, Dr. Engelberg consults with parents not sure if their child’s difficulties could be helped by professional assistance or are part of “normal” child development.

Dr. Engelberg says, “Sometimes is obvious when a difficulty is related to adoption. Other times it is harder to tell. In either situation it is helpful to work with a professional with expertise in both adoption and child development.”

“My therapy style is very collaborative. You are an equal partner in our work together. I will listen non-judgmentally to your concerns and ideas. Together we will develop a plan to reach your goals.”

Dr. Engelberg also provides Parent Educator/Family Coaching Services, Training/Workshop Facilitator Services and Pre-Adoption Consultation Services

Linnea C. Lauer, LMHC

LH000053105

libertybaycounseling@embarqmail.com

360-697-1445

Liberty Way Counseling Services

20307 Viking Ave., #203
Poulsbo, WA. 98370

I specialize in providing mental health counseling services to children, adolescents and their families. I’ve been in private practice for 11 years, and I have additional experience working with the foster care, community mental health and educational systems. I have been a designated child mental health specialist, a school counselor, and a school teacher.

I’ve acquired expertise in the areas of attention deficit disorder, grief and trauma, Aspergers Syndrome and Pediatric Bipolar Disorder. I am seeking advanced certification in the treatment of adoption and attachment issues.

I spent 7 years living in Asia and have a working knowledge of Mandarin.

Linnea says “I am a strength based counselor. That means that my clients and I identify their strengths very early in the counseling process and use those strengths to address issues with which the client may be struggling. Strengths can be found in many areas: family, faith, personality traits, and abilities. I have tremendous admiration for the courage and tenacity exhibited by those who endure and overcome adversity.”

Lyn Marx, M.S., L.P.C.

Oregon-C1426

Adoption Support Online
http://www.adoptionsupportonline.com

541-514-5572


Lyn Marx, MS, is a licensed professional counselor in Oregon. She has earned a post-graduate certificate in “Therapy with Adoptive Families” and Level 1 and 2 certificates in “Cybercounseling”. Lyn provides online counseling, education and coaching for families touched by adoption. She specializes in providing services to children and families in the early stages of adoption and coaching adoptive parents throughout their life as parents.

Lyn has developed a program for families in their first year of an adoption placement, Getting Attached: An On-Line Jumpstart for Building Forever Families. After completing the first 4 weeks of this program, she writes an Initial Attachment Assessment, which includes recommendations for the next step. If in person therapy is recommended, this Assessment can be useful to pass on to the therapist.

Lyn says: “Counseling on-line is a new approach to meet the needs of busy families. As a Child and Family Therapist who has worked in person with clients for over 20 years, I have been pleasantly surprised to find that I get to know clients as well through ‘cyberspace’ as I did in person!”
Online counseling is… *Support at your fingertips*!

Laura Stone, LMHC

LH00004230

174 Roy St., Suite B
Seattle, WA 98109

206-498-9895
info@laurastone.org www.laurastone.org I have over 12 years experience working as a clinician with children and families impacted by adoption. I provide psychotherapy and counseling services for children, adolescents, parents and families in my lower Queen Anne office in Seattle. Some issues that may be addressed in therapy include attachment and separation challenges, parenting struggles, family adjustment, depression and anxiety, identity formation, PTSD, grief and loss. I also have extensive (personal and professional) experience and expertise in working with trans-cultural and trans-racial families.

I work with internationally adopted children and those who have spent time in foster care, as well as those in kinship placements and guardianships. I also work with birth mothers, adults who were adopted, and those considering becoming adoptive parents.

Beginning in 2009, I will facilitate groups for parents and their newly internationally adopted infants and young children, based on the “First Year Home” groups developed and previously offered by Patty Cogan.

Madeleine “Mayda” F. Taney, MA, LMHC, ATR-BC

LH00010 651

Inner Well Counseling & Art Therapy

info@innerwellcounseling.com

206-304-1954

824 S. 309th Pl. Federal Way, WA 98003  

Mayda offers support and education by teaching parents to provide more structure and routine and have consistent and realistic expectations while gaining a solid understanding of their child’s developmental needs and diagnosis.  

Mayda possesses a unique combination of expertise with 14 years as a special education teacher and her clinical degree and experience.  Because of this expertise, she is extraordinarily equipped to consult with and coach parents in navigating and negotiating the educational system on behalf of their children.  She can educate and assist parents with Individualized Educational Plans (IEP’s); 504 plans; educational testing and the results and advocacy in behalf of children.

In her work as an educator, Mayda has worked with children and families brought together by domestic and international adoption as well as kinship adoption.  She has had the opportunity to work with families of many cultures and configurations.

Mayda also provides Educational Consulting Services and Parent Education/Coaching Services.

Lynn Marie Tienken, MS, LMHC

LH00005234

Balanced Family Solutions

lmarie@yahoo.com

1914 N. 4th St., Suite 400

Seattle, WA 98103

and

15600 Redmond Way, Suite 201
Redmond, WA 98052

206-661-2825


Website: www.lynntienken.com

It is my pleasure and passion to counsel and coach individuals, couples and families in my private practice. My 24 years as a therapist blends my experience as a school counselor, parent lecturer, teacher trainer, and mother of two confident sons. For post adoption families I offer the opportunity to engage in work with me from different levels of needs: parents needing counseling and direction for children with behavior problems related to anxiety, depression, trauma, eating and sleeping issues; parents wanting coaching (at home or in my office) for strategies, that “establish limits, develop family routines and simplify the home life; and parents wanting consultation with school personnel and observation of their child in the classroom. As a specialty, I have counseled adoptive families, who have faced divorce, establish single parent homes.

My treatment philosophy emanates from my spiritual base: I want to understand my clients’ pain through the eyes of simplicity, compassion and patience. As such I need to know their story then provide strategies that help them learn from their limitations to treat themselves with respect and forgiveness. With my 24 years as a family therapist, I know that people can change how they think and communicate. They can be happy in basic and ordinary ways when they listen to their heart.